Blog: How does fashion make me confident? By: Brandee Marie Darden!

                                       ❤  Blog: How does fashion makes me confident? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 3/28/25!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who is struggling with their confidence! This blog is for y'all! I love y'all! 💙 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be going through, just know that God can handle it and God will take care of it!! You are loved by God and he will never leave you! I love y'all! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but first, a blog recap from Wednesday!! On Wednesday, I talked about the meaning behind my outfit of the day on Sunday, 2/16/25!! The meaning behind the outfit is I wanted to match with my man on the 1st Sunday that we got to go to church together and I feel like red matched us very well!! If y'all want to know more about this blog, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Link right here: →Meaning behind my outfit!  Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about how does fashion make me confident? This blog is dedicated to anyone who is struggling with their confidence! This blog is for y'all! I love y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about how does fashion make me confident? Why does fashion make me confident? What certain fashion makes me confident? Why does those certain fashion makes me confident? Now, without any further disruptions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!

The word "confident". Why does it come to mind like that? 

When I think about the word "confident", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "confident", what comes to mind is someone who feels comfortable in wearing whatever they want to wear! Feeling confident can be a challenge sometimes but when you find something that makes you feel confident, you want to keep wearing it over and over again!! I had challenges throughout my life when it came to my confidence but as time goes on, I start to feel comfortable in my own skin! Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that because we want to wear something that makes us comfortable and make us confident and it is important to have that confidence! Always have that confidence!! 

How?

How does fashion make me confident? The way fashion makes me feel confident is when I wear certain piece of clothing whether it is a flowy dress or a nice top, I have this confidence about myself that I can't stop smiling but if I don't feel as confident, I don't have a smile and it stinks!! Sometimes, it is hard to find stuff that make me feel confident! I want to feel good about myself in certain clothing or even look in certain clothing but it can be challenge at times but someday, I will find clothing to make me look good!! 

Why?

Why does fashion make me confident? The reason why fashion makes me confident is because I love how certain pieces of clothing make me confident! I love how certain shirts or certain dresses make feel good!! Sometimes, it is hard to find a certain piece of clothing and make yourself feel good and as a plus size woman, it is a little hard because sometimes, I think to myself "this is going to look good" but it doesn't look good! It is hard to find clothing that makes me feel good but I always try to make it work and I always wanted to make sure my confidence is at a high instead at a low!! 

Make me confident!  

What certain fashion makes me confident? When I think about certain clothing that makes me confident, I think about certain dresses that I love to wear!! I love to wear my flowy dresses! My flowy dresses make me feel confident a lot along with my flowy shirts!! When I wear my dresses that have a slit in them, I feel confident in them!! I love when I wear something and I feel impower and confident! When I tried on my new shoes for Easter, I felt confident and beautiful!! I love when I feel confident! It usually shows!! 

Why?

Why does those certain fashion makes me feel confident? The reason why certain fashion makes me feel confident is because I have built my confidence up for years and when I wear a piece of clothing that I am thinking to myself "I look good in this outfit today", I feel good about wearing it and I feel gorgeous!! Sometimes, the devil like to tear me down but I never let the devil win because I know better to never let the devil when!! When I wear something that makes me feel good, I tell myself that I look good and I am happy that my confidence is at a high at times!! Sometimes, I have to remind myself how pretty I am but it can be a challenge at times!! Confidence is key when it comes to wearing something that is completely out of your comfort zone but there are times where I would step out of my comfort zone and wear something that I could never see myself wearing but I did it!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, the way I can describe confidence is having confidence within oneself when it comes to wearing a piece of clothing!! When you find something that you love and then you tried it on and you tell yourself "I look good in it" but your mind tells you other wise, it kind of hurts because your mind likes to play on you a lot and you wish it didn't! It can take years to build up your confidence up and it can be a challenge at times, but once you start feeling confident, you will be happy! It took me years to feel confident when it came to skirts because I felt uncomfortable wearing skirts but I am happy wearing skirts! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is Don't feel discouraged or defeated when you try on something that doesn't make you feel good! Keep building your self confidence because you are going to get there and you are going to feel good again! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today!! The moral of this blog is self confidence is key when it comes to fashion! It can be a challenge where you want to feel confident in but you also have to remind yourself how beautiful you are or how handsome you are because there are times where I had to remind my man how handsome he is because he will tell me that he was "ugly" and he is not ugly! My man beats himself over it and I don't like it at all!! It breaks my heart when my man will talk bad about himself!! Having that self confidence within yourself can be a challenge and finding something that would make you feel good can be a challenge as well, but you have to remind yourself "You look amazing and don't you ever forget that". For today's Bible Verse of the day to end this blog, it is taken from Proverbs 17:17 and it says "A friend loveth at all times, And a brother is born for adversity". I absolutely love this Bible Verse a lot because we need to love one another and be friend to one another! We need to care about one another and take care of one another the way God takes care of us and the way he loves us! God wants us to take care of one another because he wants us to be there for one another! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I pray that y'all will have a good day or had a good day! Stay tuned for an all new blog episodes coming next week where I will be talking about on my 1st blog page where I will be talking about analyzing the song "Honest" by: Leanna Crawford, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, analyzing my poem "Faith", and sharing Christian Affirmations! Stay tuned for that! I love y'all and until next time "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! ❤❤❤❤❤❤ 

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I love this Bible Verse of the day so much because we need to love one another and be there for another because it is important to love a friend and it is important to take care of someone means a lot to you!! 

"Be Confident About Yourself", 
-Unknown. I love this so much because you have to be confident within yourself when it comes to fashion! You might not feel good wearing certain things but that's okay because you will get there!! 

"Wearing confidence
like it's my favorite
accessory". 
-Unknown. I love this so much because when you feel confident in something, you want to wear it like an accessory and if something makes you feel good, show your smile off because it is important to have that glow to you!! 

"Fashion Is The 
Armor To Survive 
The Reality Of 
Everyday Life". 
-Unknown. I love this so much because you don't know what kind of outfits that you are going to wear everyday and you don't know how confident you are going to feel in certain outfits!! Find outfits that will make you feel confident!! 

To end on a high note, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Preach" by Ryan Stevenson featuring Matt Hammitt! I chose this song as the song of the week is because we need to preach wherever we go! We need to share the good news with the people who don't know about God or about Jesus!! We need to preach God's word! I love y'all and have a wonderful day or had a wonderful day! I love y'all!