Breaking the gender norms! By: Brandee Darden!
Breaking the gender norms! By: Brandee Darden. Friday, June 3rd, 2022! 
Intro to my blog!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl, Brandee here and welcome back to another blog episode for today! I'm so happy that y'all can join me on my new blog episode for today! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Before I jump into today's blog episode, let's talk about Wednesday's blog episode! Shall we? I think we shall! On Wednesday, I talked about my makeup and outfit for the day on May 15th aka my blogging anniversary! The jewelry, the outfit, and the makeup looked so good that I day and I love the lipstick so much! The lipstick matched my shirt so perfectly that I loved it so much! I even got compliments on my outfit from the nice ladies from Barnes and Noble! I agree with them that pink is totally my color! I couldn't agree with them more! Now, let's move onto today's blog episode! For today's blog topic, I will be talking about breaking the gender norms! When I see a guy wear makeup or a woman wearing a suit or anything like that, how does that make me feel? Why does it make me feel this way? Do I have a problem with a guy wearing a shirt or a lady wearing a suit? Why or why not? Am I against any guy wearing a skirt or a crop top or a woman wearing a suit? Why or why not? If I have any advice for my Blogger Dreamers who is a guy who wants to wear a skirt or a crop top or who is a lady who wants to wear a suit but they are afraid, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? Who is ready for a new blog episode? I know that I am ready! Let's get started!
Talking about when I think about the word, gender norms, what goes through my head? Why does it go through my head?
When I think about the word, gender norms or even the words breaking gender norms, what goes through my head? When I think about those words, I think of a male wearing makeup or even painting their nails! I also think about females wearing a suit! I feel like everyone these days are so certain about every guy should wear jeans or a nice shirt or a woman wearing a nice shirt with a skirt or even a dress! I have seen male Kpop idols wear makeup or even wearing a skirt or even a crop top! If a guy is comfortable wearing a crop top or a skirt or painting their nails or even wearing makeup, let them be! This also goes for women as well! If you see a woman wearing a suit, let her be! If the woman or man is comfortable, let them be! Why does it go through my head? When I think about the words, breaking gender norms, I think about any guy or woman wearing whatever they want to wear and the reason I think about that is because if that person has the self confidence to walk out their own home with their nails painted or a guy wearing a crop top or even a skit or a lady wearing a suit, that's amazing and awesome! I applaud that man or woman and them being confident! I don't judge anyone for being themselves and being proud of them being themselves because every person should be proud of who they are and be proud of the clothing they are wearing! You can wear anything you want to wear! It's your body, wear you want to wear! Men, if you want to carry a purse with your outfit, go ahead! I won't judge you! Be who you are and don't be afraid to be who you are!
My feelings and how I feel about it? Why does it make me feel this way?
When I see a guy wear makeup or a woman wearing a suit or anything like that, how does that make me feel? When I see wear makeup or even a crop top or I see a Kpop male idol with painted nails or even a woman wearing a suit, I feel like they should express and be their authentic self! I think if a guy wants to wear makeup or a crop top or even have painted nails, I am okay with it! I will support anyone who would wear a crop top or even a skirt or a lady wearing a suit! I don't care! If I see someone being happy, I will support that person no matter what! I will never judge people because they are wearing something that is either for females or males! Break the gender norms and be proud of who you are! Why does it make me feel this way? The reason why I feel this way because I think a guy or a woman should be true to themselves no matter what! I think they should feel comfortable wearing whatever they want to wear! If I see a guy with a painted nails, I would compliment him on his nails! If I see a guy wearing makeup, I will compliment him on his makeup as well! I judge other people because I think it is wrong to judge other people! If I see a guy with painted nails, I would ask him to be my friend immediately! Just saying! I think people should be proud to be themselves no matter what and they should feel comfortable in wearing whatever they want! It's their body and they can wear whatever they want! Forget what society says and stay true to yourself!
My problem with it? Why or why not?
Do I see a problem with a guy wearing a skirt or a lady wearing a suit? I don't see a problem with it at all! I feel like every person should express themselves how they want to! If a guy expresses himself by wearing a skirt, that's fine with me! If I see a lady wearing a suit, I would be like "yes queen! You better work"! I don't care how people dress! That type of stuff doesn't bother me at all whatsoever but what does bother me is when people judge how other people should dress! If you want to wear something that you are comfortable in, you go ahead! I won't judge you! As a matter a fact, I will compliment you on your outfit or your makeup or even your nails because everyone deserves to be complimented on! Just saying! Why or why not? I don't have a problem with it because I feel if that person is comfortable wearing nail polish on their nails, then that's awesome! If a guy is comfortable walking out of the house and wearing a crop top with a skirt, that's also awesome! I am a non judgemental person! I would be friends with a guy who wants to paint their nails! I wouldn't mind having a friend who is a guy and who does paint their nails! I have no problem with people wearing whatever they want to wear or if a guy wears makeup or not! I don't care! I am never bothered by it and I will never be bothered by it! Now, if I see someone like a guy who is wearing a skirt or some makeup and they are getting bullied, I am going to stand up for that person and that also goes for the woman as well. I believe in gender has no clothing and if that person is comfortable wearing something, let them be! Leave them alone! Move on and mind your own business! Thank you very much!!
Against it or no? Why or why not?
Am I against any guy wearing a skirt or a crop top or a woman wearing a suit? I am not against any gender wearing anything that they want to wear! I feel like it is important to be there for people who want to wear whatever they want and people are against it! I feel people who I want to wear whatever they want to wear feel like people are against them and they shouldn't feel like that at all! I feel like we live in a world where everyone is going to judge anyone they see and if a person sees a guy wearing a skirt or crop top, they are going to immediately are going to go up to that guy and say "that is for girls only or guys only". If I see that happening, I am going to go to that person and tell them "No clothing has no gender. If this guy or lady is comfortable, let them be". If I see someone being comfortable, I would give them the praise they need! I'm not afraid to admit that I wore men's clothing before and men's shirts are so comfortable! Just saying! The reason why I'm not against it is because I feel like any person should be able to wear anything they want to wear and be okay with it but again, we have a lot of judgemental people and it is not fair to those people who are comfortable and feeling confident will judge those people just because guys are wearing girl clothing and girls are wearing guys clothing. Does it matter what that person is wearing? No because it is our body and if we feel comfortable whatever we are wearing then leave us alone! It's not that hard!
My advice! Why would I give that advice?
If I have any advice for any of my Blogger Dreamers who is a guy who wants to wear a skirt or a crop top or who is a lady who wants to wear a suit but they are afraid, what is my advice? Here is my advice: If you are worried about someone who will judge you, let them! Be your own self because if you feel comfortable wearing girl clothes or guy clothes, that doesn't matter! Ignore people because people are going to be haters and you don't deserve the hate! Walk out of the house like it is your own run way! Be proud of who you are and own those clothes like you belong in them! Like I said, clothing has no gender and if you are getting bullied for wearing guy clothing or girl clothing, tell the person who is bullying you and tell them "I'm proud to be who I am and don't be hating on me because you're jealous"! Don't be afraid to be who you are or wear whatever you want to wear because you are the only person who can rock in those clothing! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give that advice is because people can hate all they want but I could care less! If I want to wear a boy shirt, I can! If a guy wants to wear a crop top, they can! Everyone has a different preference in clothing and if they feel comfortable in it, let them wear it! It is completely up to everyone! Me and my sisters are completely different when it comes to clothing but do I judge them for what they are wearing? No, I don't judge them! Don't judge anyone either or I will hunt you down like there is no tomorrow! Just saying!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day!!
In conclusion, everyone should dress how they should want to! It's my body and I am going to wear whatever I want to! If I feel comfortable about wearing a boy shirt with boy shorts, I will gladly wear it! If a guy wants to wear a skirt or even a crop top with their nails painted, let them be! It doesn't matter what people wear as they are comfortable! I am all about being comfortable in clothing! I don't care what it is! As long as you are comfortable wearing it, you go ahead and be yourself and be proud of who you are and never be afraid to be who you are! Clothing is all about expressing who you are as a person and if a guy is comfortable wearing a crop top, that's great! If a girl is comfortable wearing a boy shirt with shorts, that's also great! You have to be comfortable within yourself and if you are comfortable within yourself, that's great! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is always love yourself no matter what! Wear whatever you want and feel comfortable in it! I want my Blogger Dreamers to know that whatever you wear or if you wear nail polish or not, I don't care! Be proud of who you are and be amazing! You are loved by so many people including myself! I love you for who you are and don't be afraid to wear whatever you want! It's okay to wear nail polish if you are a guy! Don't be afraid to be who you are! It's okay!
Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all have made it to the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog post for today! Just know that whatever you wear and you are comfortable in it, you can rock it! I believe in each and one of my Blogger Dreamers! Here is my bible verse of the day: "But as for you, be strong and do not give up, for your work will be rewarded". -2 Chronicles 15:7. I love this bible verse because if you think to yourself "I got this and I can't give up", then you will be rewarded with something good. Don't give up because something is hard! You got this and I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! I love y'all so much and never give up! Always remember my slogan: "Dream Big! Don't Give Up On Your Dreams"! I will see y'all on my 1st blog page! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Stay Safe and always love yourself no matter what! Your Blogger Queen is out! Peace! 💜💜✌
For this week's song, I chose "Voices" by Stray Kids! I love this song so much! It has meaning to it and when you deal with voices in your head, it stinks!!
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| Bible verse of the day!! "But as for you, be strong and do not give up, for your work will be rewarded." -2 Chronicles 15:7.     |
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